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ah777ed · Just Starting Joined: 28 Sep 2009 Posts: 3

hello : ,
how are you ? i hope u are all fine . i am a ner member here and i am so happy that i am here with u .
First , My name is “ Ahmed “ I am from “ Egypt “ exactly from “ Luxor city “ I am an architect but in fact I am working in another field , it is propaganda and advertisement cause I like it so much .

however , I am single , I never married before , I came online to look for a true and loving woman that is ready for a true , honest and loving relationship and will be able to take good care of me , and will be able to be with me forever and love me so much love that we cannot live without each other cause I am looking for love really and nothing else . but i found out that russian girls or women are so nice and kindness but i am so affraid from a lot of things and i have these problems : -

1- i can not get a true muslim russian girl or woman even it is not so important for me than love because love is the most important thing for me .

2- i do not know how are russian women looking at egyptians and all russia , do u trust egyptian people or not ? do u like them or not ? i do not know if fact , and i have a lot of friends from all over the world but i have never met a russian girl ?

3 - is she the girl who looking for marriage and stability and family and so on or just for fun and if some thing happened she will order divorce ? because i am not looking for misserable life or fall down marriage i want a wonderful marriage a wonderful life ? so how dose she look like and how dose russian women think about marriage ?

4- how can i get a girl or a woman like that ? is it difficult ? impossible ? easy ? or what cause i am looking in dating website and i found a lot of girls and just keep sending me message but it looks like stable reply message i mean i do not know but i feel that they are not girls looking for serious relations .

5- maybe some of u will tell me why u did not try to go to russia ? because i do not know maybe i will not be welcomed there because i am an egyptian guy and they can look at me like arabian and muslim guy so i am so affraid !

every one here have a comment or any opinion just try to explain it and write it here and i am really good man i like to listen to all of u so just tell me the true things please
i need all your help

with all my thanks to all of u

ahmed

polarrrbear · Frequent Guest Joined: 31 Aug 2007 Posts: 32

You know, the way I see it, there's a lot of issues with the way you are looking at things.

First, why is it even an issue what nationality women are? If it's love that you speak so highly of, does it even matter if she's Russian, Egyptian, Chinese or whatever.

Second, why should anyone trust or like people of certain nationality without knowing them? I'm not saying they should dislike them, but it's in love/relationship context, can anyone say "oh I like people of this nationality", as if it matter? Nationality isn't some trophy you seek and acquire in a person.

Third, you generalize too much. It is as silly as asking "do Egyptian men like Chinese food?" Some like, some don't. Same for Russian women. Some maybe looking for a relationship or marriage in that sort of arrangement, some aren't. Each and every single one of Russian woman has their idea of what marriage is and should be. Sure, maybe a Russian woman can tell you, but next Russian woman you meet probably tell you a bit different opinion. What is it that you want to hear that actually have any significance to your situation? You just have to meet and if things go well, start a relationship and ask her, because then that's the only time you get an answer that actually means something to you.

Lastly, stop being so defensive. Yes, the fact is there is quite problematic racism going on in Russia and to be honest, it doesn't make it easy, but that's how it is. But really, I don't think being naive and defensive about yourself is a good way to go. And don't trust these dating services you are talking about. It's most likely a scam. I might sound harsh, but I think you are looking at things in a wrong way.

ah777ed · Just Starting Joined: 28 Sep 2009 Posts: 3

maybe u are right but i am not talking about general women and also i heard that russian women are so nice and good women for marriage , i tried before girls here from my country and they are not wise enough to be a good wife

polarrrbear · Frequent Guest Joined: 31 Aug 2007 Posts: 32

But that's exactly what you are saying. You are generalizing that Russian women to be nice and good for marriage and if Russian women like or dislike this and that. No one nationality of women are nice and good for marriage, nor they like or dislike same thing. They are all just as individual as any other nationality of women, with their opinions, wants and ideals. They don't line up to get married to just about anybody for the sake of getting married, you know.

Seriously, forget whatever you heard about Russian women.

vox16 · WayToRussified Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Posts: 356

ah777ed · Just Starting Joined: 28 Sep 2009 Posts: 3

u mean russian women do not speak english as well as they suppose to speak english and another thing they do not speak arabic ?

first i know that they do not speak arabic cause arabic language is so difficult to speak in all over the world but whatever i do not need a russian one that speak arabic cause it is ok for me .

i can speak english good and if she can speak english , that will be so great , so what is the problem , maybe i did not understand u as well , i mean english is sp popular language in all over the world so ? what do u think ?

vox16 · WayToRussified Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Posts: 356

divemar · Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 1:27 pm Post subject:

Who cares is you don't speak Russian and she doesn't speak Arabic? As long as you can find a language to use like English, this would be good. Secondary things come later buddy. The first thing you need is to find the girl first, accepts you in return then things can be talked about!
Chill and take it easy Very Happy

jo jo 7 · Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 4:51 pm Post subject:

I have to agree with divemar. My fiancee English is okay, the basics which he has to use for business. His accent sometimes causes me to ask him to repeat, but we are able to communicate and have a conversation. I have asked him to teach me more Russian and Polish, but to him he thinks that he should learn more English before he can teach me a new language. I agree that since he can speak basic English it has helped me understand him better and I have picked up on some words in Polish or Russian that he has taught me down the road. I think that when you both know one language then that is all you need and true learning another language is best later when you have gotten to know each other and can talk one that you already have the basics with. The rest comes later.