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bernieboy
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 Posted: Sun May 20, 2007 3:27 am Post subject: Russian Girlfriend |
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| I have been living with my Russian Girlfriend for 1 year now...we get along great most of the time but when she is in a bad mood or has some problem she vents her anger on me and says some real bad things...after she says just ignore it... everything is OK...but is she tell the truth when she is angry or upset |
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surfguy
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| Posted: Sun May 20, 2007 3:55 am Post subject: |
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| sounds like a true woman! Do you live in Russia? If not does she have any friends or family close by that she can vent to? How old is she? |
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bernieboy
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Location: Sakhalin Island
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| Posted: Sun May 20, 2007 4:57 am Post subject: |
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| shes a true women alright very strong and determined...she has loads of friends she is a popular girl...and she talks to them alot...thats some of the problem i think they influence her with some of her words...she is 32 years oldyes i live and work on Sakhalin Island |
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surfguy
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| Posted: Sun May 20, 2007 9:07 pm Post subject: |
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| bernieboy wrote: | | shes a true women alright very strong and determined...she has loads of friends she is a popular girl...and she talks to them alot...thats some of the problem i think they influence her with some of her words...she is 32 years oldyes i live and work on Sakhalin Island |
ok don't mean to pry...just trying to understand the situation...she's a woman and probably trying to decide what it really is she wants...so she has stress because of it and takes it out on you...that's what often time the man in the relationship ends up being...a mental punching bag  |
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surfguy
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| Posted: Sun May 20, 2007 9:08 pm Post subject: |
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| oh btw I have to girl friends here in the USA who were born and raised on the Island there |
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Fire_Goddess
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| She is a verbal abuser, and she should be dumped. If you were a woman and telling the same exact story about a man, everyone would call that abuse and tell you to get out of there. |
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surfguy
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| Fire_Goddess wrote: | | She is a verbal abuser, and she should be dumped. If you were a woman and telling the same exact story about a man, everyone would call that abuse and tell you to get out of there. |
yes women suck!
...and men lick...except for the gay ones |
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Ender
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Location: Ural mountains
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| Posted: Mon May 21, 2007 8:44 am Post subject: Re: Russian Girlfriend |
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| bernieboy wrote: | | I have been living with my Russian Girlfriend for 1 year now...we get along great most of the time but when she is in a bad mood or has some problem she vents her anger on me and says some real bad things...after she says just ignore it... everything is OK...but is she tell the truth when she is angry or upset |
I looks like you lack of expirience about womans. Even if you live with one.  My wife is same. The best tactics - do something pleasing her and gel out of the sight immediately. Without obvious target most likely she call to her girl friend. Then they discuss every aspect of asshole boss, stupid work, other problems and so on.
After end of discussion probably she say something like this: "Oh... how stupid this <insert>, should i find another girlfriend?" and after five minutes she reconsider.
Huh... the storm was passed.
Actually i believe all womans are same, as there i can't remember any exception from this case. |
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Fire_Goddess
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| Posted: Mon May 21, 2007 9:27 am Post subject: Re: Russian Girlfriend |
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Actually i believe all womans are same, as there i can't remember any exception from this case. |
No they are not, because I do not take out my frustrations in life on innocent bystanders. |
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Ender
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| Almost all of them don't think about self as about impulsive person. |
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jo jo 7
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| I can have a little temper, but I have never took my anger out on any of my ex-boyfriends. I have been frustrated or peeved off, but I never clocked out on a man before that way. |
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Ender
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| surfguy wrote: | | yes women suck! ...and men lick...except for the gay ones |
Oh. They everywhere! |
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bernieboy
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Location: Sakhalin Island
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well that storm has blown over only to re live another one...my ex wife called with major security problem in the house we used to live in...she now wants to finish our relationship because of a phone call....
She sees no problem with calling or recieving a call from her ex in fact she sees no problem with having a drink with him...she says she completely loves me and therefore its OK but me getting a call from my ex and then telling her the same that i completely love her and its OK does not work...is it Russian womens logic or are all women this way... |
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jo jo 7
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Location: Louisville,Kentucky
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| Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 5:17 am Post subject: |
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| bernieboy wrote: | well that storm has blown over only to re live another one...my ex wife called with major security problem in the house we used to live in...she now wants to finish our relationship because of a phone call....
She sees no problem with calling or recieving a call from her ex in fact she sees no problem with having a drink with him...she says she completely loves me and therefore its OK but me getting a call from my ex and then telling her the same that i completely love her and its OK does not work...is it Russian womens logic or are all women this way... |
No, not all women are this way, I can vouch for that. A man or a woman should not be seeing ex's. They should not be having drinks together unless they parted as friends and then the girlfriend or boyfriend should be present when this is going on, but when ex's get together with each other they should not be left alone. You shouldn't be telling an ex you still love her and then see the one you are with. Do all you Russians believe in open relationships? This is why divorce is so high in Russia, too much openess in relationships there. I am not clear on your security issue. What is that about? Be more specific. |
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surfguy
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| Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 6:36 am Post subject: |
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| bernieboy wrote: | well that storm has blown over only to re live another one...my ex wife called with major security problem in the house we used to live in...she now wants to finish our relationship because of a phone call....
She sees no problem with calling or recieving a call from her ex in fact she sees no problem with having a drink with him...she says she completely loves me and therefore its OK but me getting a call from my ex and then telling her the same that i completely love her and its OK does not work...is it Russian womens logic or are all women this way... |
Get rid of her...that is so disrespectful of you...time to trade her in. |
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