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saint Just Starting
Joined: 11 Dec 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 6:06 pm Post subject: Russian Mentality! |
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Hello,
I am from Wetern Europe and I met a nice girl living in my apartment here. We are dating each other for around 3 months and we are in the exclusive stage. I have made her clear that I would like her to be girlfriend and she is also interested to have me as boyfriend. I am often confused by what stage I am, since she is very hard to display any kind of affection. When I tried to kiss, she rejects. Even, eye contacts are rare. Since, I don't have any problems in getting further date, I hope she loves me still. Is this quiet normal for a Russian girl or else we have problems in our relationship? A bit confused whether to trust or not. Could anyone help me to get out of this puzzle.
Cheers,
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007India Frequent Guest
Joined: 13 Dec 2007 Posts: 70
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Posted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 7:06 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | Hello,
I am from Wetern Europe and I met a nice girl living in my apartment here. We are dating each other for around 3 months and we are in the exclusive stage. I have made her clear that I would like her to be girlfriend and she is also interested to have me as boyfriend. I am often confused by what stage I am, since she is very hard to display any kind of affection. When I tried to kiss, she rejects. Even, eye contacts are rare. Since, I don't have any problems in getting further date, I hope she loves me still. Is this quiet normal for a Russian girl or else we have problems in our relationship? A bit confused whether to trust or not. Could anyone help me to get out of this puzzle.
Cheers,
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since she is your GF and to her you are her BF, how can you expect her to love you, that means you started your love in the pseudo name 'friendship' did you expect to kiss all your GF, then its not friendship. probably that girl does have a good reputation about you thats why she didn't kick you when you approached her in this manner. of course i would say you manners need a perfect refinement. if you are serious about her, its better express your wish to her and ask her if the current relationship can be upgraded to love. else treat her as a good friend. i hope you didn't see her as how a baby see a doll.
may be russian gals are not the one who change Boy friends like changing cell phone SIM card. LOVE not for sale. |
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surfguy Lounge Wizard
Joined: 13 Apr 2006 Posts: 6996
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Posted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 10:17 pm Post subject: |
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| Dude...I feel bad for you...ok pull away and she what she does...IMHO that fact is she rejected you and having dated for 3 months...hmmm and the intimacy level isn't there...you need to communicate with her better and truly find out...remember...actions speak louder than words. |
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